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dilyevsky
1548 days ago
Don’t fool yourself - most managers would fall into Persecutor camp not the Rescuer ime.
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afarrell
1548 days ago
It is
incredibly
easy and ego-inflationary for people playing the persecutor role to see themselves as rescuers.
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kwyjibo1230
1548 days ago
Definitely tracks with the human tendency to judge yourself by intentions, and others by actions
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kwyjibo1230
1548 days ago
The wiki covers that scenario. The rescuer uses their role to say they "tried" and then justify negative feelings to the victim. Essentially becoming the persecutor
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