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by parineum
1544 days ago
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> And those are actually the people who should be placed in top institutions Do you really think there's this untapped group of "non-standardized" thinkers out there who belong in the to institutions but for standardized tests? This sounds a lot like something I'd tell myself when I was 16 instead of dealing with the reality that I was just a lazy, underachieving high school student and would have made a lazy, underachieving college student. In reality, those unconventional thinkers you're talking about find a way to achieve anyway by unconventional means. |
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"You have a high IQ, you are smart, you are intelligent, you don't study and you do well etc"
I let it get to my head and instead of growing, instead of recognizing what I didn't know, I focused on what I knew. Pride and ego. For a while it worked so I had no reason to doubt it. But when the sheer work load got to a point where effective time management, strong and consistent work ethic were required I couldn't pull it off.
its a downward spiral, you are not used to putting in effort and seeing good results. that is setting you up for failure.
now? people who do well on tests, who do well in school, are completely deserving because they put in the work and patience.
same with success, its not a matter of rolling dice but focus and it requires:
- knowing what i dont know
- effort & work
Yes there are really smart people out there who could really benefit from the above but many do not like to admit it. I do and now I take the time and effort to know what I don't know. This has nothing to do with race or equity but more to do with your attitude. Yes it can be influenced by our surroundings and events but everyday we get up and make the choice to believe or not believe what we don't know and know.
Having said that if you realize you are unconventional, realize why that is, because an unconventional path is riddled with false paths, pain and require faith. If you are conventional you need to rely less on faith and it is why many try to get others to follow it because it is less risky.