I miss the days when I could fire up Pidgin (or Gaim when I started using it) and instantly connect to every IM service I ever needed. Hopefully this is a step back towards that.
Agreed. It genuinely feels like my online experience degraded over the course of the past decade or so, because I am less willing to join a specific walled garden. And then I remember that this is by design. The winner takes his/hers social circle to the winner garden.
I too have been worried about that! They claim they'll offer a self-hosted version soon. I'd feel a lot more comfortable going that route so my IP is often from the same place.
Right now everything is running on their servers with god knows what IP addresses and from where.
So far I haven't been banned but I have had to reset my Facebook password once.
Instagram suddenly stopped working and I had to reconnect a few times.
So far WhatsApp is ok.
IMHO the iOS app is close to useless and I stopped using it.
The desktop app is where it's at and I'm only using that for now.