I feel like this is MySQL's model very well. A long time ago they traded some strictness for speed, because the average MySQL user was doing some basic CRUD apps and it never mattered. But adding useful checks and good messages everywhere requires a fair amount of engineer effort and probably costs more processing than whatever performance benchmark they are probably optimizing for.
You say that but having worked on a DSL for a while, you end up sprinkling this code all over the place and things which might be simple loops, or string.splits, etc become much more gnarly.
I've used to write my queries in pgAdmin or VSCode.
I downloaded DataGrip after reading your comment, and damn, the autocomplete is just so good. It even shows me the arguments of Postgresql extensions like TimescaleDB.
This almost reads like an ad, but I just wanted to thank you for changing my life :P