[dansteen]

I would suggest something a bit different. Give to someone else. Volunteer for something, and reliably show up especially when it is difficult for you. Being needed is a common need for much of humanity, and having others rely on you is a good way to fill that need.

There is nothing wrong with having multiple motivations for doing something. Ultimately, you are helping someone else. Your motivation for doing so does not reduce the fact that you have helped them.

Additionally, it's natural to care about things you put effort into. If you continue to show up for volunteering when it is difficult for you, you will eventually begin to care about those you are helping.