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by Swizec 5373 days ago
The problem with dating that many women at a time is that it's a giant waste of time, effort and ultimately money.

I don't know about you, but I don't have the funds to go on that many dates even if I am the kind of cheap who always splits the bill.

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What are you wasting all your money on then? If you don't have the money to take a girl out do you really think you're financially stable enough to have a family?
I'm a student. There just simply isn't any money to begin with.
Then why are you in a hurry to get married? I would expect dating to just be for fun at the student phase.
I'm not. I just said dating three people at a time is a drain on my resources such as time, money and effort.
The main reason to date three people at a time is to find a wife.
I dunno. I found dating fun. If it's a waste of time and effort, then why bother hanging out with women at all? As far as money, I certainly don't expect to pay for everything, all the time. Even the least "financially capable" of the women I dated insisted on paying when she could afford to, and often just cooked me dinner because she couldn't afford to go out.