[scarmig]

I'm a highly emotionally-available, bellydancing bi guy who's dated both men and women, so I have a reasonable comparison point. Men are far, far more open-minded about the gender roles their partners inhabit than women are. It's not even close.

[azhu]

If that's your experience then that's your experience. Mine is different. I validate your experience, and see it as true. I do the same for my own.