| While I am not as successful but I live comfortable life and I feel same way as you. A few weeks ago, I was feeling really low and asked for similar advice. It really helped writing down my thoughts and reading various comments. Since then I am feeling really motivated and sort of high on life. I think having an achievable goal is really important in life. I decided that I was not happy with my work, so I will definitely make a change. Which was a huge stress reliever. Then I told my boss that I am not feeling motivated at work and I need to move into management. We will see what comes of it but that made everything concrete. I also started doing leetcode daily, it is boring and pointless but gives me peace of mind since this is plan b. Then in personal life I am really focused on getting 8 hours of sleep, and other relaxation related activities. Anyways my suggestion would be start with relaxation. Fix sleep, get massages, hire nanny or housekeeper. I was also minimalist before marriage, and my wife’s consumption habits are really stressful for me. It is not even about money. I hate stuff and give away things for free rather have them take up space in my house. I realized I cannot change my wife’s habits, so I am just focused my reaction to her habits. I have all my minimalist gear in one backpack in the house. Working on reducing my wardrobe right now. Since you have a successful business, Selling it would not be my first step. But if business is still making you feel miserable then sell it. I think my main point is make a decision to change something and work towards it. |