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by throwaway020222
1602 days ago
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> I can barely describe the euphoria in first months/year following my separation, waking up and proceeding through my entire day completely unbothered whenever I wanted. What happened for you in the 2nd, 3rd, etc. years? > But I can tell you that the wanting and longing for companionship doesn't magically go away. You presumably courted, wooed, and married this woman because you're in the 99% of men who want to feel that companionship in some capacity. Yes, you are right. But is it necessary to commit to just one person for 40+ years just to feel that feminine companionship? There must be other ways... (for ex seeking short term relationships over long term) |
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I'm back on Tinder and Bumble lmao. Short term relationships and casual relationships can be fun and I won't discount that, it's probably all I will be pursing for a while just because of my own personal life situation. But the flip side is they all have an expiration date. You might luck out and go on a 3-4 month streak with someone, as soon as you feel like you've reached a good rhythm with someone, she will decide she's ready for more, or that she wants to continue her "hoe phase" by finding someone new and repeating. And you're back to spending your long coveted free time swiping through the treadmill of flesh again. Go to r/tinder or r/bumble if you want a taste of what most days are like that. There's pros and cons to it, but just don't assume the grass is greener.