[throwaway020222]

Of course I wouldn't ever tell her the truth of when I decided to get a divorce. It would devastate her to find her past X years have been a lie and I'd just be a great a*hole.

I'm trying to think in the best outcome for both, because even thought I don't love her romantically anymore, I really wish her the best for her life and I would like her to find someone else that might be better husband than me (if that's what she wants of course).