People did notice. Pre-pandemic this was the major reason most people got flu vaccines: it's nice not to get the flu, but even nicer not to kill grandma when you visit the nursing home. Bad flu seasons were heavily reported, and people were aware that, while mild to most, the flu can be very deadly to at risk populations.
In pre-pandemic years if there was a flu as contagious as omicron people would be in a panic.
I'm sorry you don't like reality, I've never been a huge fan myself, but what's happening is happening.
And in the next decade, based on current death rates, 4,000,000 Americans will die of COVID-19. Are you saying there's no difference between 3x10^5 and 4x10^6? Well, the difference is not that large, but apparently it does cross our arbitrary threshold for "this is actually quite bad and we should probably stop it from happening"
We have tens of thousands of thousands of deaths every year. In the past decade 300,000 died of the flu and nobody notices.