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by insickness 1610 days ago
It's possible that at first it's a test, but even when I'm close friends with men, I tend to talk "shop" rather than talk about feelings and emotional states.
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Right, but before you can talk shop, you gotta figure out if they are competent at all in anything.

There are definitely people I've met who will try to talk shop, but it becomes immediately apparent that they are just trying to BS their way through everything.