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by Ancapistani 1614 days ago
Toxic? I don’t think so - it’s possibly a very different dynamic, but that doesn’t mean it’s toxic.

The GP stated: > go to each other for advice and emotional support

The way I intended my marriage vows, this would violate “forsaking all others”. I go to my wife for emotional support, not someone outside the marriage. I would consider doing otherwise “cheating” at the same scale as a sexual relationship.