[chubs]

I find it really hard, because nobody in this career has kids! Very few have wives, i have a suspicion that most are single. So when you put family first, it really is a culture clash. My solution is to try and become self employed. I hope it works out.

[abalashov]

Maybe in bohemian Silicon Valley startup circles of 20-somethings. However, that is an extremely inaccurate supposition about the IT profession as a whole.