[tuyiown]

Ok, I didn't meant to introducing unsolicited advice, more like illustration to make sure that leaving ego didn't meant anything about caring or not, but mostly _how_ you do express your carefulness, especially converting into a constructive loop.

That being said, your default mode of conversion on this whole thread is confrontational, that facilitate self-cornering a lot, especially that leaving no open end in the conversation, forcing uneasiness. It's one burden to make sure the conversation goes well when one speaks.

I don't know you or your team, maybe nothing in this can help you, or maybe you are in a dysfunctional team, or even the fit is not good, but accepting things in a forever silence, without discussions, might really lead you into bad places. Leave some space in your mind for improvement, even if you're not ready right now, no reasons give up forever.

[watwut]

Two of my comments were purely expressing how I feel. Third one was tldr of my past experiences. Only the part under lines seems confronting, which is not that much and hardly a whole thread. I am really unsure about what corner I am supposed to lock myself in with these.

Also, it was repeated experience that has nothing to do with my current team. I am not in my first team and learned those lessons in the past ones.

And really, not every code review comment will improve you. Acknowledging that significant amount of them are pure preferences or even someone being wrong is not refusal to improve. And yet another category of them are half baked ideas. Just that, people give comments for variety of reasons and you have to manage them all.