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by AussieWog93 1618 days ago
I asked whether or not you have kids because you seem to be completely misunderstanding both what is happening and why we're doing it.

Saying "no" to a request for attention and/or milk at 2AM (for a 1 year-old) is not neglect, it's just setting a healthy boundary.

I'd even be willing to go one step further and say that insisting your partner do this is abusive.