[grayrest]

Much of your difficulty/effort is due to lack of familiarity. The rule is basically if you see an identifier followed by a space, it's a function call that ends with the line, outdent, or postfix control flow statement. An identifier followed by a colon means an object literal.

I have no more trouble recognizing these patterns than distinguishing between function calls and parens being used for grouping. Part of that is due to my own enthusiastic syntax highlighting for vim [1] that leaves identifiers as pretty much the only piece of text not highlighted. If you take a look at that file, the syntax in it is very old and comes from when : was the assignment operator which was dropped when implicit object literals were introduced.

[1] http://gr.ayre.st/s/vim/coffeescript_example.html