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by hutzlibu 1633 days ago
Sure, people are having sexual desires and dating is allright with me, but you were still mainly playing ball there, right?

Like I just wanted mostly to relax in a new awesome wellness place, I have not been before.

But sure, saunas are intense and you see other people without masks, which increase the chance of direct contact.

So if I meet someone nice there and this person is also interested, then sure, things can go another way for us, but not in this particiular place as other people are there for sauna and not an orgy.

Most, especially young women, cannot relax very well, with sexual tensions in the room directed at them, so the sauna culture is very sensitive to keep all that out as much as possible. You are just naked among other people. And relax. You may admire the looks of other bodies, but you are really not supoosed to stare at them, or bother them in any way. But in most public saunas it is sadly mainly horny old people keeping the women out. (which is why I am a bit mad at horny people creeping into private wellness groups looking for swinger sex)