[voakbasda]

If a guy tries to turn it into an actual date, you have the information you need to make a decision: run like hell.

[whichdan]

Sure, but managing that risk is still solely on the woman's side, so it's understandable that a cold message would intrinsically have lower value than it might to a man.

[ketzo]

Yeah, but imagine if you had that fear – or really, just the annoying worry – going into every potential cofounder. It would be exhausting, and I imagine that's why fewer women opt for the process at all.