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by xupybd 1627 days ago
I was feeling this way. I missed being busy and wanted to get back to feeling productive.

Yesterday changed that and I'd give anything to be bored again.

Yesterday we took our two dogs to the river for a walk. Two men got into trouble in the water, I jumped in to help. All I could do was help another man get free of one of the drowning men.

The fellow rescuer couldn't breathe with the panicking man grabbing him and the current pulling them both under. If I'd been first too them I'm sure I'd be dead as the other rescuer was in much better shape than me.

So I helped a man get free of another man's desperate struggle for life. I watched as two men died a few meters from me. In front of their family. A woman asked my wife why we weren't helping them. It was her husband and father.

The water was too dangerous, the men too panicked, and I was too unfit.

Emergency services recovered three bodies from that river. A woman and her daughter had drowned in the same spot a week ago. The woman's body was found by the divers looking for the two men.

I long to go back to being bored.

4 comments

I'm extremely sorry for what you went through. Please realize that you went through a traumatic experience and could perhaps benefit from professional help. My home got invaded and I successfully fought them. But I was nervous for months until my then girlfriend advised me to visit a therapist. He helped me a great deal within just one hour.

Best of luck.

I can't fathom waht you must be feeling. It's horrible when we get into these random life-changing events.

I'm sorry you had to endure that.

Holy shit. That is one hell of a rough start to ~2021~ 2022. As others have said, talking to someone can really help - when you're ready.

Only other advice would be to hug your dogs. Sometimes they're better than therapy.

I’m sorry you went through that. Very sad.