[anm89]

I mean, its different for everyone. If what society wants to give you is naturally pretty close to what you want then it will be a lot easier for you. This is true for many many people and most of them are probably reasonably happy.

If you are the polar opposite just know you are in for a battle and you likely will hqve to take om extreme personal risk to make it work.

But i mean, certainly there are plenty of happy people out there.