[mac01021]

I suspect the GP is interpreting "Honestly?" as an expression of incredulity at being asked the question - as though the asker did not know their place as an employee.

I can see how such an attitude would be offputting, but I do not believe that is the correct interpretation of the HR spokesperson's meaning.

[chinathrow]

You're right. English is not my first language and I've read the "Honestly?" more as "Seriously?".

[confidantlake]

Sometimes it something like "I know you won't want to hear this" or "I suspect you won't like the answer". It is prefacing something like I know you don't want to hear this but I would rather be honest than lie about it.

[mac01021]

It's just an english idiom that doesn't mean much. It's like saying "If you are looking for an honest response, the answer is no."