| "Could have gone wrong" is a mild phrase which doesn't reflect the reasons why there is trend against bullying. An amputee might find strength and toughness in learning to adapt to being without an arm. That doesn't mean we go around encouraging people to cut off their arms. I suspect most amputees would rather not have to have that experience in the first place. Quoting "Bullying: A Module for Teachers" at https://www.apa.org/education-career/k12/bullying under "Myths about bullying" > Many beliefs about school bullying are not supported by current research. These are among the most common myths that even some teachers have been known to endorse: ... > Being a victim builds character. > Another misconception is that bullying is a normal part of the childhood and adolescence experience, and that surviving peer harassment builds character. In contrast to this view, research findings clearly show that being bullied increases the vulnerabilities of bullied children. For example, we know that children who are passive and socially withdrawn are at a heightened risk of getting bullied and these children become even more withdrawn after incidents of harassment (Schwartz, Dodge, & Coie, 1993). How many other people suffered, in being part of the same bullying environment from which you drew your character? |