[karmab]

Sometimes one doesn't see the problems unless one has encountered them himself and that is not to say the original poster is mistaken in his/her beliefs but perhaps their experience in management has been limited thus far.

To the original poster:

If you find yourself in a management position ever, you will understand the challenges at the management level are much different than what you would encounter in a tech-centric role.

The advice I would get the original poster is that of compassion!