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PaaS and managed services let you trade money for time and effort - patch management, backups, security, config optimization, simplified scale-out/availability/etc. all take time, effort and skill to get right and keep running well over time. With RDS/Aurora/AzureSql/CosmosDb (and the like) you get to focus on your app/service/product instead. It all ends up being a question of how much your time (and being able to focus) are worth to you. If this is an actual business and not a hobby, and assuming market rates for your time - I believe the managed service offering ends up the cheaper option overall.