| Having a purpose in life can guide decisions. I believe our existence continues beyond mortality; what we become (learning, practicing honesty & kindness to others) and our service are important. Earning an honest living to serve others, & supporting a family, are honorable and good. There were some other HN discussions where I commented in more detail, and the containing discussions also have interesting comments (& maybe I like helpful lists): https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=22129921 "Procrastination is about managing emotions, not time" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23452651 "Ask HN: I implemented the life I designed: perfect but I feel lost. What now?" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28867645 "Ask HN: What's the Point of Life?" https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23553508 (part of https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23550758 "Ask HN: How do you develop internal motivation?") https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19708786 (part of "Ask HN: What are good resources for life advice?" at https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=19650044 ) And maybe (noting for future reference also): https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=29266094 " Ask HN: Career progression vs. meaningful/appealing products?" To me by far the best thing is to have an enduring, joyful, worthwhile, good purpose in life, that drives everything else (including maintaining one's health, balance etc). I have written much about that, at my own site (in profile, then survey or click "Other"). I link to other resources there also; nothing for sale. |