[flippantdev]

> The question is whether it's abusive or not

The question on whether it's abusive or not very obviously depends on the details. Yes, lol, I am actually willing to accept $250k per year, unlimited time off that I use upwards of 6 weeks per year of, full benefits, working from home, in the event my boss needs to call me once a year on a Saturday.

Sweeping generalizations are not helpful, and will likely hold you back in your career. You should evaluate things on their own merits.