[mordae]

You have suggested a divide: THEY are not unlike US in that THEY cannot regulate their emotions like US.

Once you have established a higher moral ground, you have proposed to ostracize THEM from public life, until they become US.

The problem is that they say we are discriminating against them, which we objectively are.

Please refrain from furthering the divide and concentrate on productive strategies to mitigate the situation. Especially if you truly believe that its an issue with emotional regulation, because these usually cannot be handled safely by piling on more pressure.