[md8z]

It is no different from the "politics" you play at work every day. Your coworkers have to like and respect you (on some level) and you have to like and respect them or you will probably have a bad time. If you are new your boss probably won't give you the root password to the production database immediately, you have to work up to it and become senior within that company.

It's not clear what you want otherwise, if you want other projects that have a lower barrier for contribution, there are plenty of those, and they also have huge backlogs in their issue trackers. I mean just think of this from the other perspective. Say you are maintaining an open source project in your spare time. Somebody comes along and asks you to do something that would take up months of your time. And the fix is somewhat complicated so instead of spending your free time with your spouse/kids/friends/etc you would have to spend it all on that fixing that issue, for months, during which no other issues can be fixed. You could close the issue with an explanation, you could say you want it eventually and then leave it open, or you could totally ignore it and leave it open. But none of those options will ever be satisfying to the reporter, sometimes people just ask for things that are not realistic. I'm sure you can relate if you have paying customers at work that have ever asked for unrealistic timelines...