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by mewpmewp2
1691 days ago
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Claiming someone is an "idiot" is not brutal honesty. Are you claiming that you think they have low IQ, or what exactly are you being brutally honest about? What is even definition of an idiot for you? This word only exists as a tool to either manipulate or shame or simply live out your emotional rage, it's not about brutal honesty. It's not about being truthful or even trying to understand the truth. Generally, if someone calls someone else an "idiot", I can give benefit of the doubt few times if this happens, okay it's an emotional outburst, but otherwise I would lose trust in their general resolve. |
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It's actually wiser, strategically, to do this silent manipulation (and most definitely it's not strategically wise to call one an idiot), but, as the receiver, I'd prefer the honest approach myself.