[dymk]

That's not at odds with him having raped her. In addition, most rapes (and murders, and most violent crimes) are committed by those in close relationships. Double in addition, I don't doubt for a minute that a rapist 40 years her senior would manipulate this woman into a "consensual" relationship post-facto.

[catlikesshrimp]

A "the worst has already happened, let's move on" approach? That's nasty

To those that will downvote me: I wouldn't prosecute the guy without proof even if I thought he was guilty.