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Apologies if this is not quite on topic, but this definition of shame really spoke to me:

“When a person feels that he or she is becoming his or her undesired or feared self.”

I feel like a lot of my motivation to better myself and help improve my environment comes from that feeling. It's as if i have a very clear picture of who/what i dont want to become, but not so clear on what the "ideal me" would be.

Is this something that motivates HN as well or do you try to realize an ideal(?) version of you through your thoughts/actions