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by i_r7al 1694 days ago
I wish I have a solution for you my friend but unfortunately I don’t. Anyone telling you to relax or it will be alright, please don’t believe them. I’m 32 years old and since college I had the same issue and I have tried so many things and all did’t work. I’ve made almost only 1-2 friend after high school. It’s a problem I just don’t know how to over come it. I almost lost hope and start just focusing on myself and try to make some accomplishments and not worry about social life as I tried so hard and nothing is working. Fyi, I’m an immigrant live by myself since college in the US and I think that played a big prt of getting along with people. Not feeling accepted as well as bing an introvert myself. Believe it or not, I have tried to move all over the country/switch jobs maybe it’s the town I was at but nope. I lived in bug cities and rural towns and it’s the same no different what so ever. Peace my friend. I hope it gets better for you.