[chefkoch]

As a cancer patient, it seems absolutely necessary to do a biopsy to know what your wife is dealing with.

Before i had my diagnosis 3 doctors suspected 3 different more or less bad conditions from CT and MRT. After the biopsy the different diagnosis was 100% clear within a week.

The biopsies i had where not much of a thing, local anaesthesia and they stick a big needle into you while your in the CT. I could always go home the same day and didn't need any pain meds afterwards. Even if it turns out to be cancer and incurable often there are options that will prolonge her life and it also adds peace of mind to know what your up to (after the initial shock).

Best of luck to you, ping me if you want to chat or talk (i'm also from germany with kids).