[collegeburner]

I mean its sometimes a fair complaint, it can be kinda rude, just in this case its useful advice to get out and don't get too extremely online (which is a risk for people my age)

Though I guess getting mad about it might be a valid reason to tell somebody to touch grass

[scollet]

The important consideration is grounding yourself with the people around you.

Find that genuine interest in others' interests.

You see them on the opposite bank and it's a lot easier to build a bridge cooperatively.

Circumstances demand a personal approach, so no one can tell you how to build a bridge, only that you must.