[Thlom]

It makes sense if your ex stayed out of the workplace during your relationship to take care of children and the home.

[gremloni]

Well then now that you’re divorced you need to go find a job. Sure it may not pay as well as it might have but you had the pleasure of staying at home and spending time with the kids. Why is the working person the only one punished in this situation?

[echelon]

And if there are no children and both partners work?