[zbentley]

I think having ad hoc query capabilities on your job queue/log (not possible with rabbit and only possible by running extra software like KQL with Kafka, and even then at a full-table-scan cost equivalent) is a benefit to using postgres that should not be overlooked. For monitoring and debugging message broker behavior SQL is a very powerful tool.

I say this as someone squarely in the "bigger than can work with an RDBMS" message processing space, too: until you are at that level, you need less tooling (e.g. read replicas, backups, very powerful why-is-it-on-fire diagnostics informed by decades of experience), and get generally higher reliability, with postgres as a broker.