[asauce]

Grief is really hard, and different for everyone.

For me, being around friends and family and keeping myself busy helped the most. Keeping up with my hobbies, hanging out with friends, and focusing on work kept me sane. Not sure if it was the healthiest method, but I tend to get a little self destructive when my mind is left to itself.

Avoid the "what ifs". You cannot go back in time, and it is unfair to yourself to constantly question what you could have done different. Be kind to yourself.

Finally, one comment that deeply resonated with me during a time of grief is this reddit comment[0]. It helped give me some perspective in a time that seemed void of hope.

[0] https://www.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/9f4qy9/comment/e5tz...

[ddingus]

There is powerfully good perspective in that comment. Thanks for linking it.

[alserio]

I knew the comment, even before clicking the link