[Ixiaus]

Women giving advice [to men] is not a good thing - women only have a "feeling" based notion of what they want (feelings are intangible and subjective).

In addition to all of the PUA/seduction stuff, theres one simple "technique" I've learned: have fun, fun is infectious (particularly with women) and when women are having fun they get horny and they also start to "feel" something for the fellow that is their source of fun! Fun is light and not weighed down by the dependency for an archetypal mother projection (needy and "smothering" guys, that's you).

Fun feels so good - women love to feel good. If you happen to be the person she's with when she's feeling even slightly above her baseline "good" she will associate it with you, and if you can keep your cool and "play" with her a little bit (ya know, don't be so easy to catch) she will fall head over heels for you.

[thomasgerbe]

Likewise for women: just show interest and don't be afraid to be aggressive/forward. I've met so many awesome women who either lament their singleness or wonder why they never attract the 'good' guys.

[Ixiaus]

I got downvoted pretty hard but no counter-arguments?