[yeaman1231]

I feel like this is the source of the tensions I am having, having a good career and a fulfilling family life are both very important to me, I am worried about WLB making it so its harder to achieve the latter, I am single and early in my career. Previous job's WLB was a big reason my previous relationship didn't pan out

[antasvara]

I think you have to figure out what a "good career" is before you can decide what's better for you. The answer to your question relies entirely on how you weigh financial security, career enjoyment, and work life balance against each other.