[Jeff_Brown]

I don't dispute that those things happen and are horrible, but I believe "as often as not" is incorrect. What's your sample? If your sample is a forum where people tell conversion-to-atheism stories, it's not representative. Almost of the religious people I've met feel that way about their church.

Admittedly, my sample is surely not representative either. In particular people stuck in a church community against their will probably don't bring it up a lot with people they don't know very well.

FWIW I'm an atheist. I recently wished I was able to invoke some kind of God concept while talking to a colleague who this year lost her mother, her boyfriend, and two other family members to Covid. I intend to look for something entitled Prayer for Atheists, if it exists.