| Too many options to choose from can be paralyzing. Here are somethings that I found helpful. ------------------ Improve one aspect of life at the time. It becomes overwhelming in life if there are too many moving parts. Asking "right now, what is more important to me?" Moving abroad? Changing fields and follow what interests you? Starting a relationship? When I am not sure what I want, I try to pick a plan that gives me the highest amount of flexibility and randomness. - Pick a big city and be active. - Become financially independent to increase the flexibility in my life. Often asking what I am struggling with right now and focusing on fixing an immediate pain is helpful. If you decide to move abroad, it is easier if you have a useful skill. Right now web development is in demand. Moving should be easier. Choose the destination depending on what you want from moving abroad. Want learn new perspectives? try a different culture. Want to build a new home? Try different places where you feel like home. For context I immigrated to Finland 8 years ago and now living there permanently. When it comes to career, by far the most useful thing I found was to choose what interests me. Figure out a way to make a living combining 2-3 unrelated things that interest you. |