[Chernobog]

Came here to say this myself. Do awesome stuff, and you will attract awesome people.

You don't have to be the world's best in the thing you pursue either, to get noticed. For many hobbies and interests, there is a scene. And there are so many ways to contribute to that scene, such as helping arrange events or arranging your own. This will put you on the radar among a lot of people, and shine positive light on you.

[teatree]

What are awesome stuff? (I am asking sincerely).

[chefkoch]

Awesome doesn't mean you have to do extreme stuff. You are doing it for yourself, so no need to climb the Himalaya or swim from France to England If you are not into it.

I recently thought about what i would like to do if i was single again without a family and it would be: - try sailing (an organized trip or learning with a course)

- cycle through italy

- take part in a cheap car rally

- buy an old motorcycle and ride from europe to iran

But everyone wants different things