[cookiengineer]

- uses googlemail as TXT entries but privateemail.com MX entries for spot.xyz domain

- no DKIM/DMARC verification headers that make sense, just a default ~all

- wonders why emails are classified as spam

Well, yeah. Maybe use an email spam rating tool next time, like mail tester [1]?

[1] https://www.mail-tester.com

[rsync]

mail-tester.com is great and I use it frequently to check (and recheck) the mail servers that I run.

However, your (correct) evaluation of their weird DKIM/DMARC/MX values notwithstanding, I currently have 10/10 totally perfect score from mail-tester.com and gmail marks my email to my wife as spam.

As in, a 15 year history of my email address having multi conversations per day to her email address and some of my emails (which are responses to her emails) get marked as spam by gmail.

I think I am going to sue google.