[pvm3]

Live for yourself and the people you love, few things matter outside of this.

Ditch things which may seem important or interesting but which in the long run are unlikely to have a significant impact on your life (e.g. reading Hacker News daily, watching the news, watching TV)

Your wife is married to you, part of the bargain is sharing both the good and the bad. I don't know what the financial split between you and your wife is, but even if it is 50-50 tell your wife you are having a rough time. Try and work out a system where she carries more of the load while you figure things out.

Seek professional help, or engage in meditation.

I wish you the best of luck.

[tkojames]

Thank you!! I will do whatever for my wife she makes me so happy. And that is problem I feel like I need to break away from my family.. bt is it is really hard. My best friend said I got all the material items you wanted as kid but I was never loved at all.. his family took me in.. my wife family loves me so much. I know I need to break away from from family.. but I still love them idk why I wish I could stop and not care.