I don't actually disagree with anything you've said... but I don't know what point you're trying to make in the context of replying to the parent comment.
I still don't understand where you were trying to go with your comment. If one person comments about the fact that marital rape and other forms are rape are treated differently and your response is to be wary of false accusations, I'm going to have an uncharitable reading of your comment. I'm just trying to understand what your actual intention was.