[rjzzleep]

I think what's more fucked up is that in Germany for example it's legal to have sex with a 14 year old if you're 30 as long as the parents consent. It gives a whole different perspective to when people talk about other "less developed" countries.

I actually think that there were other EU countries that had even lower age limits than Germany.

[still_grokking]

That's not true afaik.

Someone under 18 could have sex with someone over 14 (but also still under 18).

As soon as one of them is older than 18 it becomes child molesting, and the grown up is in serous trouble.

The law makes not sense of course. It was a more or less recent change. The old regulation may seem bizarre given that example of the parent, but it was more close to reality in most cases.

Before that a 18 year old was not in trouble when sleeping in consent with a slightly younger friend (which is a common situation in reality). Now you would automatically get prosecuted as child molester if authorities would find out; no matter a relationship and consent!

That's the outcome of the CP witch-hunt in Germany… Quite normal things are now outlawed and can ruin lives of young lovers quite substantially.

[rjzzleep]

You're wrong, the other commenter is actually correct in recommending the Wikipedia article. For some reason the German age of consent article is weirdly specific[0]. It references legislation that applies both for 14 year old and above 21 year olds.

It's somewhat related to determining whether the child was capable of "sexual self-determination". But typically the abuser will only get punished if both the child and its parents file a legal complaint(at least that's what the law says).

I'm going to leave my opinions on this at the front door, but given how easily this law can be abused it's almost comical how often the german government has used the excuse of "think of the children" when they passed mass surveillance laws.

By the way as others have pointed out while the 14 and 17 year old can have sex legally, sending any kind of nudes actually triggers another law that may lead to imprisonment[1]. Making any kind of "pornographical" material available to children under 18 is a felony. Who would have known that the porn my classmate shared in highschool on VCR, if shared on an iPhone nowadays could have led to him being sent to the juvenile detention center.

[0] https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schutzalter#Schutzalter_14_Jah...

[1] https://dejure.org/gesetze/StGB/184.html

[still_grokking]

I can't edit my post above any more.

The other child posts are correct, I'm wrong.

My confusion comes mostly form a not realized, but once planed change in this laws.

In the end the current legislation seems quite sane.

But this can't be said about the laws governing messaging intimate content between teens. That's the other source of my confusion.

Anyway, thanks to bmn__ and rjzzleep for pointing out my error!

[bmn__]

> That's not true afaik.

Can you look first into Wikipedia, online law publication to verify before spreading misinformation?

You are morally obligated to edit your post and correct it with the true facts.