[kubanczyk]

I'd suggest not to be a contrarian, despite it is quite a captivating meme.

You do have goals; try to follow them swimming with the (general) people, and with their social/economic systems, rather than against.

[flamboyant_ride]

I am not wanting to be a contrarian just for the heck of it. Some of the goals are hard to live by while having a fulltime job that demands attention-span fully and is only asking for more.

Could you explain your point a bit more though?