[dcminter]

Have you read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" ? It's often recommended here.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influen...

[_benj]

I second this. For a long time the title was a turn off for me but I finally decided to give it a chance and it’s was awesome!!

It is not as manipulative as the book title suggests. It’s more like “what actually IS being _nice_”