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It depends quite a bit on what happens in that NICU. Our daughter was 32 as well and had a relatively uneventful stay. Same for many other infants. Our (insurance) bill was ~30-40k and out of pocket was minimal. Other's were not so lucky, having all manner of procedures including bowel resections / repair, heart surgery, etc. Many things look routine but I can assure you pediatric heart surgery is anything but.

So, not to defend the (out of control) prices, but only to say no two NICU stays are exactly alike. We can run the gamut from "a nurse could handle 100% of their care" to "we need 4 different specialists with decades of experience each to keep this person alive" and the costs fluctuate accordingly.